Marjorie Hinkley
I know, I know. How can I just lump her in with these others, right? I swear, this woman is the wisest woman that ever lived!! Every time I read anything she has ever written or said, I feel like she is speaking directly to me. She was so smart and so strong. And she and I share a birthday :) November 23rd. Also, she has a son named, Clark. I swear I did not copy her, just a happy accident. Those are the only two ways in which we are alike, I think. Unless you count me trying everyday to be even a 10th as good a person as she was. She grew up in Salt Lake and graduated from East High School. Yes yes, the same school "High School Musical" was filmed at. (I know that's embarrassing, but I don't care) She and Gordon B Hinkley lived right across the street from each other. How cute is that? What has always amazed me most about her is how much she loved her life!! She was so proud of being a wife and a mother and a grandmother. She did a lot, but that was who she was and what she wanted to be doing. I think its pretty easy these days to feel like we have to be doing so much else to make up for the fact that we are "just a wife". "just a mom". Just a grandmother". Its the age of the "pinterest mom" as I call it. Its time we take a lesson from Marjorie Hinkley and remember just how impotant our role as wife, mother and grandmother is and stop making excuses. Focus on that part of being a woman more than any other and be proud of it. Being a woman does not mean you have a clean house all the time. It does not mean that you are an expert chef and have a super-model figure. It doesn't mean that you can make Christmas ornaments our of recycled paper and flowers arrangements from wood shavings and homemade soap that matches the interior of each bathroom and chore charts that would make Martha Stewart choke on her craft supplies. Marjorie Hinkley knew that being a woman was about kindness and service and compassion and healing and nurturing and patience. She is who we should be trying to be like.. not Angelina Jolie and Jessica Alba or that supermom in your ward. She knew what it was all about. And I guarantee that she is just as much a teacher in heaven as she was here on earth!
"The trick is to enjoy life. Don't wish away your days waiting for better ones ahead."
-Marjorie Hinkley
"The grand and the simple. They are equally wonderful"
-Marjorie Hinkley
"I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car wearing beautifully tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking the kids to scout camp. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbors children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping weed someones garden. I want to be there with childrens sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friends on my shoulder. I want the lord to know I was really here and that I really lived."
-Marjorie Hinkley
"Everything you are learning is preparing you for something else."
-Marjorie Hinkley
"People are wonderful. Each one has a story. Each something to give. Each knows something interesting. Something that can make your life richer."
-Marjorie Hinkley
"Be kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"
-Marjorie Hinkley
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up and totally worn out and loudly proclaiming, 'Wow what a ride'."
-Marjorie Hinkley |
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