When I was working, I LOVED that I had certain tasks everyday that needed to be done and that at the end of the work day, I could go home and have that sense of accomplishment. I could relax, because I knew that whatever I needed to get done, was done. Well, when I quit my job to be a stay-at-home mom, I really, really, really missed that!! Being a stay at home mom is a never-ending combination of tasks. There is never a "going home and being able to relax, cuz the job is done" time. Anyway, I was missing that sense of accomplishment. So I decided to make two goals for myself everyday. Now, obviously, I do a whole lot more than two things everyday. But on top of all the cleaning and cooking and feeding and diapers and what not, I have started having two official goals. They change everyday. Some days they are, "Clean the whole house and Weed the back yard/garden" Most days its more like, "Do three loads of laundry and eat a healthy dinner" And then there are even some days that are, "Play with the kids and read a few chapters in your book". Im telling you, its totally working for me!! At the end of the day, I feel so much more relaxed and like there is an official "end of the day". haha I dont know why I need that. maybe Im weird. But in the evenings, I totally dont feel guilty when the kids go to bed if I just read or play on pinterest. Its wonderful! I also have some long-term goals that I've been working on. |
You are not weird! I totally agree, I have to have a couple things each day to have as goals or I go crazy. Sometimes staying at home is hard, you definitely have good days and bad days. Way to go with the running! I am trying to get back in to running and making it a goal too. :)
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